The Parenting Compass™ - Raise them peacefully without losing control
The Parenting Compass™ - Raise them peacefully without losing control
Your child doesn’t learn from what you say. They learn from what you model.This book shows you how to become the compass they follow for life.
How it works
Children don’t follow instructions.
They follow patterns.
And whether you mean to or not, you’re creating one every day.
With your tone. Your reactions. Your attention.
That’s what they copy. That’s what shapes who they become.
This book shows you how to make those patterns work for you.
By becoming the steady, calm, confident guide they naturally want to follow.
You’ll learn how to shift behavior without yelling, how to set boundaries without guilt, and how to create a home where your child actually listens, because it feels safe to.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about being consistent enough to lead.
Once you learn the system, parenting won’t feel like reacting.
It’ll feel like you were born to guide.
What you get
You get a simple system for raising kids who feel safe, understood, and willing to follow your lead, without power struggles.
After reading this book, you’ll know how to:
- Respond instead of react, so your child learns calm by seeing it, not hearing about it.
- Set boundaries that hold, without yelling, bribing, or repeating yourself.
- Defuse meltdowns before they explode, by recognizing what’s really behind the behavior.
- Make your child feel seen and safe, even when you're correcting them.
- Raise confidence, not compliance, so your child listens because they trust you, not because they fear you.
- Guide behavior long-term, so they grow into capable, confident adults.
You’ll get tools that actually work, in real homes, with real kids.
This isn’t about control.
It’s about becoming the calm, steady compass they follow.
Digital Version
You get the book in two formats:
A downloadable PDF and access through our free reading app.
Use the PDF to save or print. Or read inside the app for a clean, focused experience on any phone, tablet, or desktop, works on iPhone, Android, and more.
No shipping. No waiting.
You get both instantly, and you can start reading in minutes.
Audiobook Version
You get the full audiobook, perfect if you learn best by listening or want to absorb it while driving, walking, or working out.
Clear, no-filler narration that keeps you focused and moves fast.
You can listen inside our free app on any device (Android and iPhone)
Instant access, just press play and start learning.
Hardcover Version
A premium hardcover version, built to last, made to mark up, and shipped worldwide.
This is a limited run, printed in small batches due to high demand.
If it’s in stock, you’ll see the option at checkout. If not, it’s temporarily sold out.
Gurantee
Over 10,000 readers have used our books to change their lives.
That’s why we’re confident offering a 90-day guarantee.
If you read The Parenting Compass and use even a few of the tools, and don’t feel a real shift, we’ll give you every penny back.
All we ask is that you show us you actually used it.
The risk is on us.
The choice is yours.
A system of compasses that shape how your child responds to you
Each compass builds a different kind of trust.
Use the right one, and they listen, feel safe, and follow your lead, without force.
Identity
The Identity Compass
Speak to the kind of person you want them to become.
Reflect back the traits they haven’t fully owned yet.
And they’ll start rising to meet that version.
So they grow into their best self, and credit you as the one who helped them find it.
Safety
The Safety Compass
React in a way that says, “You’re safe with me.”
Even in chaos, your tone becomes their anchor.
And they’ll come to you with what they’re afraid to tell anyone else.
Because they trust you more, and you don’t have to pry to stay close.
Boundary
The Boundary Compass
Set limits without yelling, threats, or guilt.
Use calm certainty instead of force.
And they’ll respect the line, not out of fear, but because it makes them feel secure.
So discipline becomes simple, and you get peace without power struggles.
Choice
The Choice Compass
Give them freedom inside structure.
Offer decisions that lead to the same outcome, but feel like power.
And they’ll follow the path you set, without even realizing it.
So they learn confidence, and you get peace instead of pushback.
Regulation
The Regulation Compass
Keep your calm, even when they lose theirs.
Let them borrow your nervous system when theirs is overloaded.
And they’ll learn how to self-regulate by watching you do it.
So you stop firefighting every meltdown, and raise a child who can handle big feelings.
Mirror
The Mirror Compass
Speak how you want them to speak.
Move how you want them to move.
And you’ll watch them start reflecting the version that you want them to be.
Your behavior shapes theirs, and you raise a kid you actually enjoy being around.
FAQs
Is this ethical?
Yes.
Because it’s not about manipulation.
It’s about learning how your child already takes in everything you do, your tone, your timing, your reactions.
This book helps you use that power with intention, so you lead without yelling, connect without losing control, and discipline without guilt.
You’re already shaping them.
Now you’ll know how to do it on purpose.
How is this different from other books?
Other books give you advice.
This one gives you control.
Not over your child, but over what you model, and how it wires their behavior.
No long theories, no scripts to memorize.
You’ll learn exactly how to become their compass so your child listens, without power struggles, without bribes, without second-guessing yourself.
Who is this for?
It’s for parents who want peace without giving in, respect without fear, and a bond that actually lasts.
If you’re tired of repeating yourself, losing your temper, or questioning if you’re doing it right, this is for you.
Whether your child is 3 or 16, the patterns inside apply.
What’s in it, exactly?
Inside, you’ll find a step-by-step system built on behavioral psychology and emotional patterning:
- The Parenting Compasses that shape how your child listens, reacts, and builds trust
- Exact phrases, tone shifts, and timing moves that calm chaos and guide behavior, without yelling
- How to correct without losing connection, and lead without needing to control
- How to become the person your child feels safe with, opens up to, and naturally follows
Real examples. Real words. No vague advice.
Just what works, and why.
You won’t just understand how parenting affects your child’s development.
You’ll know exactly how to do it on purpose.
How soon will I see results?
Usually within days.
Once your tone shifts and your energy becomes more predictable, their behavior starts changing fast.
You’ll stop repeating yourself, stop raising your voice, and finally feel like you’re leading, not reacting.
What if it doesn’t work for me?
Then you don’t pay.
If you read the book, apply what’s inside, and it doesn’t change how your child responds, or how you show up as a parent. we’ll give you your money back.
You’ve got 90 days.
All we ask is that you show us how you used the tools. Terms apply.
We take the risk.
You get the peace.
Is this for new parents or experienced ones?
Both.
If you’re a new or expecting parent, this gives you the tools to start strong, before habits form and power struggles begin.
And if you’ve been parenting for years, it helps you reset patterns that aren’t working and rebuild the connection you may have lost.
It’s never too early to lead with clarity.
And never too late to change how things feel at home.
As Seen On
Readers who successfully used the The Parenting Compass™
Jess T.I’ve read parenting books that made me feel judged.
This one made me feel capable.
I finally understand how to guide my daughter without yelling.
Our home is so much calmer, I wish I had this years ago.
Alex G.I thought I had to be either the ‘fun parent’ or the strict one.
This showed me how to be both calm and in charge.
Our son stopped testing every limit, and I stopped feeling like the bad guy.
Natalie K.I was skeptical, but the Identity Compass alone changed everything.
I started talking to my daughter like she was already the kind, strong person I wanted her to become, and she rose to it.
We’re both different now.